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Who is in the Driver Seat of Your Subconscious Mind?

Who is in the Driver Seat of Your Subconscious Mind?

How to Regain Control of Your Subconscious Steering Wheel

Most people are completely unaware of how much of the time their subconscious is driving the car each day…

It’s like giving the car keys to an 8 year old child. Now you may be thinking, “that’s ridiculous, I would never do that,” yet we do it constantly, oblivious to how asleep at the wheel we can be throughout each day. There is a part of ourselves that is tricking us into thinking we are alert and aware, but little clues reveal that we are not.

How many times have you been listening to the radio and missed a turn, or were talking on the phone and drove somewhere other than your destination, or looked down and were speeding because of an activating conversation you were in, or were making a shopping list in your head, or were thinking of other tasks or issues and weren’t focusing on the road? Maybe a disagreement with someone had you fixated on re-living that conversation, and you definitely were not paying attention to your surroundings? You were on auto-pilot, whether aware of it or not. This is called looping, and many people do it almost all of the time. They became fixated on something, obsessing on it, and that stopped all productivity and forward movement in their life. At that point they were headed for potential disaster.

When you look at it like that, it makes driving a car seem a lot more dangerous, doesn’t it? This is when accidents happen, in the blink of an eye. What we don’t realize is that we can apply these same scenarios to our personal world. When we are looping, fixated or checked out from any situation, bad things can happen. Our subconscious is taking us on a ride we are completely unaware of. We suddenly wake up to a mess in our lives and wonder how we got there.

As we become more conscious of our subconscious, we begin to understand how this happened. The more we have been operating out of our subconscious, the more difficult this realization can be. It is a trick of our Ego, because it makes us believe that we are fully aware. Those little clues we are getting are like feathers being dropped in front of us on our path, trying to get our attention. They are trying to tell us that something is off. Many of us, of course, are too oblivious to notice. And so, the feathers get bigger, the clues get more extreme and suddenly we are in a metaphorical or a real-life car crash.

The good news is that you can wake up to those subconscious clues and regain conscious control of your own steering wheel.

If you’re not sure how, start by quieting your mind for 5 minutes each day. If it is difficult to sit in silence for that amount of time, you know you have some work to do. I talk about this in my book, “Being Called to Change.” Do not be discouraged if you find this difficult to do at first, you will get better at it each time you do it.  As a matter of fact, if you commit to this daily for 30 days, you will be surprised at the results. As you grow better at this simple yet powerful five-minute practice, you will find that you are operating out of your conscious mind more often and you will be better able to stay present throughout your day.  With this exercise, your meditation practice will become stronger, as you will find yourself able to stay present and go deeper within yourself. Your driving skills will also improve since you won’t be on auto-pilot any longer!

Becoming conscious of our subconscious is imperative to a successful and more fulfilling life. Regaining control of the mind will stop surprises from popping up and overwhelming us. Remember that those overwhelming moments are tricks of the Ego, to not only keep us distracted, but to hold us back from progressing toward getting our power back.

You can have a successful and productive life, and an excellent driving record… the power is within you!

– Dale Halaway

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What Challenges Us is Designed to Change Us

What Challenges Us is Designed to Change Us

What Challenges Us is Designed to Change Us

Is your transformational path becoming increasingly difficult? If so, that is actually good news because that means a big breakthrough is right around the corner.

You see, we can only handle so much so fast. It is good to remember that all change happens incrementally. Just when we feel we have reached an easier place on our path, a whole new set of challenges present themselves. No, these are not new arrivals that we have brought upon ourselves. These challenges were already there, we just weren’t ready to deal with them yet.

 

The important thing for us to acknowledge is that we have progressed to a new place. We have actually advanced along our transformational path, though sometimes it can be difficult to recognize.

I often say the results don’t lie. In looking back upon the progress we have made, to get to this new place with these new challenges, we can reflect on the results that brought us this far. Take stock in what you have accomplished on your journey rather than beating yourself up for the mess that you may be presently dealing with.

And always remember to take these new challenges on one step at a time. Just like the stairway to ascension that I mentioned in a previous article, there is no elevator to the top or no fast track past the challenges we are presently facing.

Take a deep breath… take several if the first one doesn’t seem to help. Then take a moment to quiet your mind. This is likely a good time to do a meditation, or some journaling or to TransCover®. This will help you release some of the negative feelings that are not serving you in working through this place that you are presently stuck in.

If we are blaming, shaming or judging others (or even ourselves), we are no longer progressing. We have stopped our flow and are not in the present moment.

By taking time to realign, re-center and come back to the present moment, we will find ourselves more ready to face whatever seems so monumental at that given moment.

It is far easier to step out of our comfort zone before we get pushed out.  What that means is that we can stay ahead of the energy that can stop us in our tracks. Awareness is key, so if you find yourself in a challenging situation, remember these tips to help you stay present so you can progress more quickly. You can choose to grow through the situation rather than just going through the situation.

It might sound unrealistic when we are stuck, but life really can be simpler and easier when we get out of our own way.  Some people deal with the pain of a situation by choosing to go unconscious. This can be in the form of self-medicating with sugar, medication, drugs, alcohol or food. Some even lose themselves through shopping, video games or channel surfing on TV or the internet. These escapes keep us from dealing with the problem and often just make matters worse. The act of going unconscious can create the next layer of pain or trauma that gets buried, which we will then have to strip away at some future time.

The best way past a problem is to head straight into it. Remember that the fear of the unknown in any situation is always worse than the unknown itself. Our fears can be paralyzing and can stop us dead in our tracks. When we choose to face our fears, we find they become easier to deal with after each victory, no matter how great or small. So, the next time you are facing a situation that you want to check out from, just remember this article and consciously choose to embrace the unknown. It might be easier to face and overcome these challenges than you ever dreamed possible and you will have that victory to help lead you to your next one. Small victories lead to small changes which lead to bigger victories and bigger changes.

 

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The Stairway to Ascension

The Stairway to Ascension

“Stop looking for the elevator to ascension because it doesn’t exist…

Take the stairs.” – Dale Halaway

The elevator to ascension doesn’t exist, that is wishful thinking and a trick the Ego would have us believe. When you are transforming and in the process of ascending, remember to look for incremental changes. Everything has to go through the nervous system first for it to truly take hold.

Stairway-to-ascension-v2We can’t move up the steps until we complete the step we are on fully. We are violating the Law of Process when we do. By trying to skip ahead a few steps on our ascension towards self-actualization, we weaken our foundation and slow our climb upward.

 

Approach ascension properly…  One step at a time.

 

It is good to always remember to acknowledge out loud when we are stuck. When we express it, only then can we move forward to the next step. And when we do begin to ascend by making a change, there is a time period of testing how resolved we are. Do not let the Ego fool you into thinking you are further along than you are.

 

To the subconscious, our word might not mean a lot. We must resolve ourselves to prove it. It can be difficult to truly resolve change where old beliefs are concerned. The old beliefs are the most difficult to ascend from. There is even a good chance that these old beliefs are sitting in an organ of the body. Resistance and dark thoughts surrounding those beliefs can turn into illness and physical ailments.

 

Many people could turn their health around by resolving old, limiting beliefs and negative thoughts that are stuck in the body. One of the keys is learning how to identify and release the resistance that’s been used by the Ego to keep us protected from having to face this stuck energy in our body. It’s the pro-active practice of letting our resistance go that jars this old energy loose so that it can be healed and resolved.

 

How easy is it for you to think only positive thoughts?

 

In this life we are given a moment of pause after we get a thought. That moment allows us to take the pause should we choose to, and do something proactive about it.

 

If we truly want to ascend the stairs to self-actualization, the pause will help lead the way.

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Dale Halaway has been influencing the lives and careers of thousands for almost forty years. Dale is one of the world’s leading authorities on personal and business transformation, entrepreneurial success and real leadership development. He is an international speaker, master teacher, success coach, strategic advisor and transformational authority. Dale is a leader in the movement for awakening and change, and is the author of a new guidebook for lasting change, entitled “Being Called to Change”, which has become a #1 best seller on Amazon.

 

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We Live In an Ocean of Money… Are Your Subconscious Beliefs Keeping You From It?

We Live In an Ocean of Money… Are Your Subconscious Beliefs Keeping You From It?

“People think they manifest what they want, but that is FALSE. They manifest what they BELIEVE. What we believe is more powerful than what we want.
Beliefs rule and then ruin.

Did your parents have memorable money sayings such as:

A penny save is a penny earned

Money doesn’t grow on trees

Save your pennies for a rainy day

Money is a root of evil

Health is better than wealth, etc?

The beliefs you picked up or co-created in this life with your parents and other influential people will hook themselves into your money stream. The sooner you can connect to a belief that is no longer serving you, the sooner it can change your money flow.

We must identify our beliefs to dismantle them. Then replace them with beliefs that serve us. We have to get to the root of that belief which is 100% emotional. Once the belief has been crystalized, it will manifest itself in our universe from there on out.The 

We live in an ocean of money… It is all around us.

Money doesn’t care how much you want or need it. It’s like taking a bucket to the ocean and filling it up with water. The ocean doesn’t care how much you take, and neither does money. Yet your beliefs within you, they do care. And they influence how much you fill up your bucket.

Change your beliefs about money, and you change your money reality.” – Excerpt from Money Mastery with Dale Halaway

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On a Mission for Change with his new Book and Vision for Humanity

Dale Halaway Teaches How to Grow Into Your Full Potential in his New Book Releasing Tomorrow

Change is a huge problem we have in our society. The majority of people are in complete resistance to change and are probably not even aware of it. We are destined to change and yet many are stuck and unable to progress in their lives. Transformational Leader and Master Teacher of the Soul, Dale Halaway has mastered the art of change and brings his simple guidebook from his classroom and seminar teachings into the public realm. Dale’s mission is to evolve humanity. He has begun a movement in helping to propel that mission. His goal is to awaken and support the evolution of those on a personal path of transformation.

“Being Called to Change”, Dale Halaway’s first book in the Transformation Trilogy, releases tomorrow, February 27, 2018. For that one day only, Dale is offering his private coaching services as an incentive for bulk book orders in quantities of 30 or more. Purchasers will be required to send in their proof of purchase for the date of February 27th to redeem this offer. For more about this book offer, other promotional offers, or to get a free chapter of the book: http://www.BeingCalledtoChange.com

 

“Dale takes the complex concept of ‘Change’ and shares with us why we avoid it, how it is inevitable, and the power that comes from embracing it. Dale proves his statement, ‘change is inevitable, resistance is optional’. An entrepreneur’s must read.”  – Ken Courtright, Founder, CEO ofTODAY’S GROWTH CONSULTANT, AN INC. 500 COMPANY

“Change is going to happen, whether we like it or not. The deeper question is, in what way will change change you? Will it change you for the worse or for the better? Will you allow change to make you sicker or more negative? Or will you work in tandem with the Law of Concentration to harness change and use it to make yourself more positive and healthier?” – Dale Halaway

 

Dale’s vision is to help people become the best version of themselves possible, by answering that internal call to change. He provides ongoing support to his students and his followers by offering community events and seminars in various cities. His next complimentary event is in Las Vegas, NV on changing limiting beliefs about money in order to become a money magnet.

This event is free to the community with pre-registration, or it’s $97 at the door, without pre-registration. Dale is an expert on manifesting and increasing money flow and has created this one day event, packed with rich content and tips on how to bring more money into one’s life. This one day only community event is Saturday, March 24, 2018 from 9:15am – 3:30pm. Interested attendees can register at: Http://www.DaleHalaway.com/moneymagnet

 

About Dale Halaway: Dale is one of the world’s leading authorities on personal and business transformation, entrepreneurial success and real leadership development. He is an international speaker, author, master teacher, success coach, strategic advisor and creator of the patented Transcovery Process®, which is a technique for letting go of that which no longer serves us.

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CHOOSING THE LIFE YOU WANT BY TAKING RESPONSIBILITY FOR THE LIFE YOU HAVE

I was asked to repost this article at my recent seminar on Karmic Destiny. Here it is again for those that were in attendance and requested it. For those of you that weren’t at the seminar, I do hope that it helps you as well in understanding why our choices are so very important. It can be difficult to get started on the path of true transformation, but once we dig our heels in and resolve to stay on the path, that resolution paves the way for better conscious choices. It is then that true change can occur. This article offers some insight and practical advice into taking responsibility for our lives and for truly making changes:

We have major problems in the world today, not only worldwide, but also in our individual lives around the dynamics of relationships including; our spouses, our friends, our families and our business partners, as well as our relationships with things like finances and careers.

While we all engage in many forms of relationships on a daily basis, most people are operating within them with a very low level of awareness. The problem is that they think this is the highest level of awareness that exists. To better understand this concept, we first need to look at choice (our freedom to choose) and how it relates to our current circumstances. When it comes to our choices, there is one thing you can go to the bank on, and that is this: every time we make a choice, that choice must be followed by a consequence (be it positive or negative) which will be reflected back by the quality and depth of the choice that was made prior to the experience of the consequence. It’s the “Law of Cause and Effect.” A positive consequence follows a correct choice, and a negative consequence follows an incorrect choice.

Most people are not aware that the reason why their life is the way it is today and everyday is because of them! It’s not because of their ex-mate or ex-business partner, even though there are some that have convinced themselves that “he did it to me,” or “she did it to me,” or “they did it to me and they are going to pay!” But the reality is the only person who is going to pay is you! This person who so-called “did it to you” could be off in Hawaii having a great time and could even be transforming their own lives into something better. Meanwhile, you’re back here saying, “Oh, they’re going to pay!” and the one who’s really paying is you. Why? Because you are the one who’s holding the negative energy! It was your choice! You chose at some point in your life to not only hold others in negative energy but also to start accumulating more of it’s like. Why? Because you’re going to be right, because you know it all, because you’re smart and you have everything under control. Meanwhile, your life is reflecting back to you that you weren’t as smart as you thought you were. Your life is reflecting back to you that something is way out of balance.

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In our country we have more wealth that is available to us than any other country in the world, and yet we have more people who are struggling financially, barely making it from paycheck to paycheck and don’t even have $5,000 in their bank account. These are people that have been working for 30 or 40 years, 8:00am to 5:00pm, like robots. They are doing the same thing every day from early in the morning until late at night. They are on automatic, but they don’t know they are on automatic! They are working the so-called “dream” by doing their eight or ten hours a day, five or six days a week, and according to the statistics the average person at the age of 65 will end up dead broke! Why is that? Now some people might answer that question with, “That’s just the way life is. Life has to be a struggle!” Yet, “life has to be a struggle” is nothing more than a way of thinking that they’ve turned into their own personal law. It’s them believing that life has to be a struggle. Because they are believing it within their heart of hearts, because they are believing it within their cellular structure of the way they think about themselves and the way they feel about themselves, that is what now manifests in their life. What better way for this to show up in someone’s life than that of their finances.

It’s time to start making better choices, and one of the highest choices you can make for yourself is to take responsibility for your own life. Start choosing to let go of all this negative energy you have been holding onto because the truth is, the more negative energy you have inside you, the more of a prison you will feel like you are in. There is no freedom in negativity. The more negativity you hold on to, the more you will feel like your life is stuck, or you’re living out the same old story over and over again.

So many people come across good opportunities but can’t access them because the moment they start to go towards an opportunity, their fears are activated that haven’t been cleared from with inside themselves, and they end up making a choice to not go there. Or if they do choose to go there, they end up sabotaging it, which becomes another choice. Perhaps their belief system or program is “I’m not good enough,” or “others make me wrong.” If this is a program that they have been running for a good portion of their life, then it’s just a matter of time and someone will come into their life and do exactly what they have been believing deep inside, and will end up making them wrong or making them feel not good enough.

If this has happened to you, and if you haven’t been paying attention, you’re going to think that they really “did it to you.” If you aren’t willing to let that go, it’s just a matter of time and you’ll get to go for another round. Someone else will come in and do the very same thing that the last person just did, only every time somebody comes in and does the same thing, the energy or the experience becomes louder. The next experience or person may look different than the last, but after the honeymoon is over and the negative experience reemerges, you realize, “Oh my gosh, I’ve just been sucked in again!” The reason you got sucked in again is because you haven’t been paying attention to what’s going on within you for the purpose of clearing that energy out from within your subconscious body.

Since you are always at choice, you can make it all about them one more time, or you can come to a

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point where you say, “I’ve had enough. I thought I knew what I was doing, but it’s pretty obvious I really don’t. I’m tired of the pain, the confusion, the conflict, and feeling like I’m constipated, not just physically, but financially and emotionally. I just can’t imagine that this is what life is really all about. I need to start making some serious changes.” Although this doesn’t feel like a good place to be, it actually is the best place you could be, because now you are ready to really start making choices that will truly empower your life.

There is a higher ground saying that goes, “When the student is ready, the teacher appears.” The truth is; when you are ready to go there, when you are ready to cleanse yourself for real, when you are ready to really evolve and mature and move towards the life that you really deserve and are willing to do whatever it takes for as long as it takes, then all of a sudden the right teacher materializes just for you. This will be the kind of teacher that can truthfully help you accomplish what you’ve now set yourself out to accomplish because you now chose it. Once you choose it and you are willing to back it up with a strong genuine commitment, now the magic can begin!

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OVERCOMING CHALLENGES LEADS TO GREAT REWARDS

There is something waiting for us on the other side of each challenging situation. We determine what it is by how we face these challenges. The outcome is truly ours to decide…

Will we choose a dark path filled with dead ends? Or will we choose an illuminated path with rewards along the way?

When you think about it like that the choice seems much simpler…

– Dale Halaway

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MONEY MAKING FORMULA REVEALED

THE MONEY TRIAD: POINT ONE

There are three points to making money successfully. They form what I call the Money Triad, which has three key elements to it. If you think of a triangle, there are three points that connect it. These three crucial points become a powerful force field. If you were to apply pressure to the top left side, top right side, or below and above them, this triangle could withstand the pressure of anything placed upon it. But if you were to break a point and then try to apply pressure, it would collapse, and would do so rather quickly. The Money Triad has three very specific essentials when it comes to creating money in our world. I will break down each point in detail over these next three blog posts.

In order to get the bottom left point of the triangle in place, we need to EARN money. Earning money is probably one of the greatest gifts we’ll ever be given to learn. Everything in this first point’s category is based on income level or income skill. In the marketplace, you get paid for your skills. This is how our economy has been designed. When you have a skill, you can take your skill level into the market and exchange it for money.

Take being an actor, for example. Once you hone your skill, you can take it to Hollywood or another major market; acting in films, sitcoms or doing commercials and infomercials. Now let’s look at being a doctor. Some of my dearest friends are doctors, one in particular is the top doctor in his city. He’s developed his reputation over many years. To become a doctor, he had to go to school for quite a number of years to earn a degree and be able to start his own practice. He only had a few patients, but knew immediately that he wanted to grow his practice. He recognized that he wanted to become one of the better doctors in his area and to become highly skilled in his profession. He decided to bring education into his lifestyle, and he started taking a percentage of the income he made, driving it back into the development and act of becoming a more skilled doctor. 20 some years later, he is now considered one of the best doctors in a city of over two million people. He has other doctors in his practice under his wing, does well financially and has learned how to earn his way. What’s interesting about this strategy is that there are so many others that are not willing to do this. They refuse to put any effort into earning their way, they resist this process like the plague.

This brings me to my next point, which is a problem that is brewing in our society with our younger generations. Somehow, some way, many younger people weren’t given the information that they needed to earn their way. Rather, they got the message that it would all be given to them. We have a lot of top leaders in the country that are now very concerned with this. There are panels and discussions referring to the fact that it’s not an individual family that instilled this belief, but that it’s become a belief of the general young populace. These panels express concern about what’s going to happen ten years down the road. There are many 20 years old that don’t have any skills, and even if they do have some skills, many don’t want to go out and do anything with them, or earn anything, because they expect things to be given to them.

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Whereas in the era that some of us grew up in, you had to earn your way. You earned your way or you died. Yet today we have people waiting for the next check to come from the lottery, inheritance, the IRS, or wherever this windfall might appear from. They don’t want to go out and earn it, they want to be given it. I’m making a big deal out of this because it’s becoming a huge problem for our society. It’s something we want to correct.

If we want to correct this problem, we have to look at ourselves. Where are we at within contributing to this problem? Where are we at with our own lives when it comes to earning? Do we earn our way or are we given our way? Do we have someone to always bail us out? The over protective parent is always there to bail us out. The over protecting parent will always bail their child out, never letting them have the consequence. Then 10 years down the road, they find that they have contributed to the crippling of their inner child energetically and to their ability to financially support themselves. You also see this in relationships where a woman will work her ever-loving tail off, because she has a great work ethic. And she’s there taking care of her man, not because he’s taking care of the children, but because he doesn’t want to work. Why should he? He’s being taken care of, and she’s taking care of the kids too. She’s taking care of everyone. Eventually, later on, resentment builds. Because the woman eventually sees the imbalance, knows it’s out of whack, and begins to feel taken advantage of. This can always be in reverse as well, where the man is taking care of the woman and the children. All of this because one person wants to earn it, and the other wants a free ride from it all.

In the Universe, there is no such thing as a free ride; it doesn’t exist, it’s an illusion. Every once in a while, a person who is engaged in excessive taking from others, sometimes shows up in one of my classes. At a certain point, they will break down to tears, realizing that they have been taking advantage of someone all because they didn’t want to go out and earn their own way or perhaps they had never learned the value in earning their own way. I’m a huge cheerleader for, and will continue to be a cheerleader for teaching people how to earn their way, instead of being given their way. To be given our way can eventually kill us. Being empowered in how to earn our way connects us to our true value and worth. When we understand what it’s like to earn our way, it helps us feel more appreciation for what it is we’ve earned thus feeling better about ourselves.

To access this Money Triad, is to learn how to EARN money, and to become good at earning money. You can then eventually become so skilled at earning money that it becomes second nature to be able to earn 80k, 120k, 200k or even 300k. It’s skills you are developing, skills with the intent being,” I’m going to earn my way and take my skills out in to the world, into the community and make a difference.”

In my business training sessions, I will sometimes see where an employee wants a free ride: they are getting paid x, they know they make x, and yet they’re not pouring out, they’re holding back. They feel they are set up and secure, so an energy evokes from them like, “Why should I bother?” They are not giving of themselves and they have a judgment internally of “I don’t like this place.” They don’t realize that they are setting themselves up for failure. Do you have any idea what you do to your own money flow with this person’s type of attitude? What would happen if you opened up? Your income could increase by 20, 30, or even 40 percent. You then bring more value to the organization, and by doing that you’re going to be rewarded financially. Because the value you bring helps the organization grow and produce more, your boss or entrepreneur will spot and watch you. They may throw an innuendo your way, letting you know that they’re rooting for you.

Not everyone has to be an entrepreneur in order to make money. What would our world be like if 8 billion people were entrepreneurs? It wouldn’t work. Because your soul is unique, not every soul is the entrepreneur, even though many feel they are. Like the Vice President that thinks they should be President, yet they’re not even doing a good job at being Vice President. They’re not increasing their value. Therefore, they aren’t earning and their money flow becomes blocked. They might make the same money, maybe with a bit of an increase, year after year. But when they learn how to work the Money Triad, they can substantially increase their value because they continue to increase their skill level. And the next thing they know they’re making 58k instead of 40k or 72k over 58k. If they keep working with the Money Triad, a few years down the road they could be making well over 100k. How cool is that? Everyone can be doing this. Though not everyone is designed to be the entrepreneur, everyone could be making quite a decent amount of money, and more specifically, the amount of money that produces a healthy lifestyle for them and their family. Everybody could do that, and we’d have a much different and better world.

In a future post I will delve deeper into the second and third points of the Money Triad. You can also check back in March 2018 for my full audio program on Money Mastery.

In the meantime, be thinking about what you can do to increase your skill level and your value in earning money. Then you will be able to secure for yourself the first point of the Money Triad.

-Dale Halaway

This excerpt was taken from the Money Mastery seminar, available March 2018 in audio format.

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BE AWARE: THERE IS ALWAYS A REASON

BE AWARE: THERE IS ALWAYS A REASON

For everything we do, there is always a reason. Everything. Now sometimes we don’t know what the reason is, partly because we don’t take the time to track it back to identify what the reason might be for that action or decision we made, but there is always a reason. That is a truth.

Whatever it is, there is a reason behind everything that we do. Many of us, however, are not consciously aware of this truth. We may be quick to identify the perceived reasons when we experience a victory, but we might be less likely to identify the real reasons behind the challenges and difficulties in our lives.

We are all challenged to some degree. As we are moving forward with our lives, as we are evolving in our relationships with someone that we really care about, there is always going to be something around that is going to challenge us. There is no way out of this. In fact, the only way out of this is to literally go into this. This is another truth. Now, it might take you a little while to prove that truth to yourself, but that is the truth. The only way out of our stuff is to courageously and responsibly go into our stuff.

ActivatedMany people are invited to the seminars, but not all of them come. In fact, one of the reasons why people don’t make it to a seminar is because something happened within them. They got activated, so to speak, with something that was uncomfortable and was already challenging them. Maybe they didn’t recognize it as such. As a result though, from their perspective they chose not to come. In 37 years of teaching, people have become activated in my classes over and over again. Activated, meaning their stuff would come up. This stuff is the baggage that has not yet been resolved from their past—it’s their issues—whatever they are. This stuff sits in the storage bin of their subconscious. Then it just becomes a question of time when something will happen in their lives and/or relationships that will trigger some aspect of this old baggage; and there they will be in that activated energy.

This activated energy can, however, make them aware of something they need to heal if they choose to look at it. In order to truly heal and resolve our baggage, we must first be willing to actually see whatever it is that we are now choosing to heal. Until we are able to recognize this stuff, there can be no clearing or resolution of it.

What I’ve seen so many times over the years are good marriages, good friendships, and good partnerships be destroyed. What I have seen from my view and place of experience, this is why—this is it right here: It is because one or both members of that relationship or partnership were not yet willing to look at their own stuff; they weren’t yet willing to be responsible for their own unresolved issues from their past. They are just dragging it forward with them. Most are not even aware they are doing this. And so this idea of the activation—when we get activated—can create havoc in our lives without the awareness of what it is that’s really happening here. The end goal, of course, is getting to a point where we can no longer be activated in this way. When we no longer become activated, it means we have cleared up and resolved our issues. How cool would that be to no longer bring this stuff with us into our next relationship? Wow!

This is a key realization.  When we experience challenges and difficulties in our lives, it is often because we are holding onto those unresolved issues as they get activated rather than actually releasing that material as it makes itself known to us. We are not always aware that this is the reason. And as stated before, until we are willing to look at the truth of the reason behind our activation, that energy cannot be healed or resolved.

There is another danger we need to be aware of, which is thinking the reason for our challenges or difficulties is someone else’s fault. It can feel that way, because perhaps something they said or did activated us, but the activation is a result of our unhealed and unresolved issues, not theirs.

Blame-GameThink of someone outside of yourself that you have, what you would consider, a significant relationship with—it could be a parent, a friend, a business associate, a sibling. Whoever that person is, when you think of this person, you know you value this relationship and care about this person. As you think about this person, has there ever been a time where you find one of you has blamed the other for something that just occurred? Have you ever considered that the reason why you might be feeling what you’re feeling when blaming the other, is because of something you did, or even experienced prior to whatever it is you’re currently blaming them for?

I remember years ago, this was me. So many times I thought the reason why I was feeling what I was feeling was because of someone else.  It took me a long time to get to these truths. These teachings I learned, quite frankly, in a way that was very painful to me. I’ve been slapped around from one side to the other many times in the context of my relationships. And so much had to do with this, what I now refer to as, a misplacement of projected energy. A misplacement of projected energy would be, for example; I would get activated, usually with anger, and project it on to others. I was very angry by the time I was eighteen. And for the life of me I couldn’t understand why I was so angry.

Because I did not understand this anger or what to do with it when the people in my life would activate something within me, I would project that anger on to them. This would then cause rifts over time between us, which became very frustrating because, again, I didn’t understand what was actually happening. All I knew was what I was experiencing as a result of this unhealed, projected energy that kept manifesting. During this time I was so addicted to food; and back then, I didn’t even know that I had an addiction. What I did know though, is that I couldn’t go longer than four hours without putting food in my body. When I did go longer, that anger would come up and then it just became a question of who I would project it on. Those on the receiving end of my projection would think they’d done something to anger me. In some cases that was true, but in most cases it was not. What they were doing back then was showing me how angry I already was.seek-truth

I finally discovered the truth. The reason behind everything that is happening in our lives has something to do with us and our relationship with ourselves. This awareness can be the beginning of an amazing journey that will not only transform our relationship with self, but also will transform our relationships with others, including the letting go of those relationships that are no longer serving us. There could not be a more important reason to take this journey. Discovering how to have fulfilling and truly meaningful relationships with others in our lives, including the relationship with ourselves, could be one of the most significant acomplishments of our journey in life!

Dale Halaway

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CHOOSING THE LIFE YOU WANT BY TAKING RESPONSIBILITY FOR THE LIFE YOU HAVE (original posting)

CHOOSING THE LIFE YOU WANT BY TAKING RESPONSIBILITY FOR THE LIFE YOU HAVE (original posting)

We have major problems in the world today, not only worldwide, but also in our individual lives around the dynamics of relationships including; our spouses, our friends, our families and our business partners, as well as our relationships with things like finances and careers.

While we all engage in many forms of relationships on a daily basis, most people are operating within them with a very low level of awareness. The problem is that they think this is the highest level of awareness that exists. To better understand this concept, we first need to look at choice (our freedom to choose) and how it relates to our current circumstances. When it comes to our choices, there is one thing you can go to the bank on, and that is this: every time we make a choice, that choice must be followed by a consequence (be it positive or negative) which will be reflected back by the quality and depth of the choice that was made prior to the experience of the consequence. It’s the “Law of Cause and Effect.” A positive consequence follows a correct choice, and a negative consequence follows an incorrect choice.

Most people are not aware that the reason why their life is the way it is today and everyday is because of them! It’s not because of their ex-mate or ex-business partner, even though there are some that have convinced themselves that “he did it to me,” or “she did it to me,” or “they did it to me and they are going to pay!” But the reality is the only person who is going to pay is you! This person who so-called “did it to you” could be off in Hawaii having a great time and could even be transforming their own lives into something better. Meanwhile, you’re back here saying, “Oh, they’re going to pay!” and the one who’s really paying is you. Why? Because you are the one who’s holding the negative energy! It was your choice! You chose at some point in your life to not only hold others in negative energy but also to start accumulating more of it’s like. Why? Because you’re going to be right, because you know it all, because you’re smart and you have everything under control. Meanwhile, your life is reflecting back to you that you weren’t as smart as you thought you were. Your life is reflecting back to you that something is way out of balance.

decision_ahead_sign_0In our country we have more wealth that is available to us than any other country in the world, and yet we have more people who are struggling financially, barely making it from paycheck to paycheck and don’t even have $5,000 in their bank account. These are people that have been working for 30 or 40 years, 8:00am to 5:00pm, like robots. They are doing the same thing every day from early in the morning until late at night. They are on automatic, but they don’t know they are on automatic! They are working the so-called “dream” by doing their eight or ten hours a day, five or six days a week, and according to the statistics the average person at the age of 65 will end up dead broke! Why is that? Now some people might answer that question with, “That’s just the way life is. Life has to be a struggle!” Yet, “life has to be a struggle” is nothing more than a way of thinking that they’ve turned into their own personal law. It’s them believing that life has to be a struggle. Because they are believing it within their heart of hearts, because they are believing it within their cellular structure of the way they think about themselves and the way they feel about themselves, that is what now manifests in their life. What better way for this to show up in someone’s life than that of their finances.

It’s time to start making better choices, and one of the highest choices you can make for yourself is to take responsibility for your own life. Start choosing to let go of all this negative energy you have been holding onto because the truth is, the more negative energy you have inside you, the more of a prison you will feel like you are in. There is no freedom in negativity. The more negativity you hold on to, the more you will feel like your life is stuck, or you’re living out the same old story over and over again.

So many people come across good opportunities but can’t access them because the moment they start to go towards an opportunity, their fears are activated that haven’t been cleared from with inside themselves, and they end up making a choice to not go there. Or if they do choose to go there, they end up sabotaging it, which becomes another choice. Perhaps their belief system or program is “I’m not good enough,” or “others make me wrong.” If this is a program that they have been running for a good portion of their life, then it’s just a matter of time and someone will come into their life and do exactly what they have been believing deep inside, and will end up making them wrong or making them feel not good enough.

If this has happened to you, and if you haven’t been paying attention, you’re going to think that they really “did it to you.” If you aren’t willing to let that go, it’s just a matter of time and you’ll get to go for another round. Someone else will come in and do the very same thing that the last person just did, only every time somebody comes in and does the same thing, the energy or the experience becomes louder. The next experience or person may look different than the last, but after the honeymoon is over and the negative experience reemerges, you realize, “Oh my gosh, I’ve just been sucked in again!” The reason you got  sucked in again is because you haven’t been paying attention to what’s going on within you for the purpose of clearing that energy out from within your subconscious body.

Since you are always at choice, you can make it all about them one more time, or you can come to a choices9point where you say, “I’ve had enough. I thought I knew what I was doing, but it’s pretty obvious I really don’t. I’m tired of the pain, the confusion, the conflict, and feeling like I’m constipated, not just physically, but financially and emotionally. I just can’t imagine that this is what life is really all about. I need to start making some serious changes.” Although this doesn’t feel like a good place to be, it actually is the best place you could be, because now you are ready to really start making choices that will truly empower your life.

There is a higher ground saying that goes, “When the student is ready, the teacher appears.” The truth is; when you are ready to go there, when you are ready to cleanse yourself for real, when you are ready to really evolve and mature and move towards the life that you really deserve and are willing to do whatever it takes for as long as it takes, then all of a sudden the right teacher materializes just for you. This will be the kind of teacher that can truthfully help you accomplish what you’ve now set yourself out to accomplish because you now chose it. Once you choose it and you are willing to back it up with a strong genuine commitment, now the magic can begin!

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